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Ultimate Blog Party

Posted on 09 April 2010 by kristas

 Hi!  I just found out about the Ultimate Blog Party hosted by 5 Minutes for Mom and, well, I’ve invited myself.  Hopefully that’s not frowned upon in your corner of the internet. 

As a PR gal from 8-5, I know the importance of an “elevator speech”, so he’re mine.   I am the wife of a fantastic husband, who is head over heels in love with our 6-month old daughter. 

I kind of like her too!   

Through all the years (six of ‘em) that Craig (the husband) and I dated, I was pretty much a fabulous girlfriend.  I often joked that if they gave out “Girlfriend of the Year” awards, I’d win.  So, you might think that I would at least make a run for “Wife of the Year” or “Mommy of the Year”  but I’m quickly learning that earning those two crowns takes more hours than I seem to have in a day. 

Most days I’m dancing (in high heels) between my roles of being a mom, a wife and holding down my job..  Oh and being able to breathe in my pre-pregnancy clothes would be a good thing too.  Some days I rock it…  other days, not so much.  I blog about the struggles of finding that perfect balance, milestones of this sweet babe and general life stuff that every new mom goes through.  It may not be unique, but it’s mine. 

If you’re looking for a place to share in those every day “mommy fail” moments or have advice for me, then pull up a chair (these heels are killing my feet), grab a cup of tea or cocktail (it’s never too early in my world) and have a look-see around.

41 Comments For This Post

  1. Jody from Mommy Moment Says:

    Stopping by from the PARTY!
    I hope you find time to visit me too!

    Smiles!
    Jody from Mommy Moment

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  2. Juliana RW Says:

    Hi! I come from Ultimate Blog Party 2010. Really cute your baby.

    Nice to meet you. I hope you have time to visit mine as well, in HERE. Have a nice weekend.

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  3. Shayna Says:

    I’m hopping over from UBP and so glad I did, I’m now a new follower since I like what I’m reading/finding here on your great blog. I’d love for you to stop by and meet me and have you as a follower as well. I hope you have a great time partying at UBP.
    http://www.texasmonkey.blogspot.com

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  4. Cascia @ Healthy Moms Says:

    Just stopping by from the UBP at Five Minutes for Mom. I love your site and am subscribing to your RSS feed. I would appreciate it if you visited my blog and did the same! I’m looking forward to reading more and getting to know you better.

    Cascia
    The Healthy Moms
    http://www.thehealthymoms.net/2010/04/welcome-to-healthy-moms-blog-party.html

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  5. Staci A Says:

    I think we all have our fair share of fails. (I know I do too!) I love your honesty!

    And you’re little one is adorable!

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  6. Melissa Says:

    Party on! Cute baby. I can’t think of a mommy yet who feels like they deserve Mommy of the Year but we probably all do to some extent :)

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  7. Anonymous Says:

    Oh you have such an adorable lil one! Just stopping by from the UBP 2010. It so nice to meet you! You have a lovely blog!
    Have a great day!

    http://angieshealthylivingblog.blogspot.com/

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  8. Julia Says:

    Hi, I am here from the UBP10. Your daughter is beautiful! I hope you stop by.
    http://couponingtobedebtfree.com/?p=2456

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  9. Kellie Says:

    I certainly have my good days and my not so good days too!

    I’m Following you on Twitter now! (@Kelliebug)

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  10. Carrie Says:

    Your daughter is a cutie! And I love the title of your blog- that’s why I love the blog world these days- it’s nice to be able to laugh at our challenges and know that we’re not in this thing alone :)

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  11. Shell Says:

    Mom fails? Oh, I’m so there!

    I invited myself to the party, too. ;)

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  12. Melissa Says:

    Stopping by to say hey from UBP! Your little one is adorable!

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  13. Jackie Says:

    Popping in from the UBP…great blog! Come visit me too!lumpsonablog

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  14. Ashley Says:

    Having a blast visiting all of the blogs in this years UBP!! Your site is great! Glad you’re a part of the party!

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  15. Christine C Says:

    Stopping from the UBP. I think that often we, as mother, wives, and women try to do too much and it’s great to be able to find the humor in it all!

    Christine
    http://scraphappychristinescorner.blogspot.com/

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  16. Janene Says:

    Have a good time partying with UBP10. Stop by if you get a chance http://stopdropandrelax.com/blog/ And see what we have to help you Stop Drop and Relax. Prepare To Be Pampered.

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  17. Crayon Wrangler Says:

    All you need to know that you ARE “Mother Of The Year” is a smile from your angel. After a day of raising my voice, rolling my eyes, refusing to read “Goodnight Moon” for the 478th time…they still manage to give that smile that (make me feel horribly guilty) I am their “Mother Of The Year” regardless of my not too stellar moments!
    Love your blog (especially your About Me) and will be back to share some FAIL moments with you and then LAUGH about them!

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  18. Alicia Says:

    Stopped by from ubp :) I agree that it’s hard to find a balance between family and work and everything else. Nice to meet you :)

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  19. Brittany Says:

    Hi! I have tons of mama fail moments…just about everyday. They always seem funny after the fact though…which is a good thing! Happy blog hop’n!

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  20. Jennifer Says:

    Stopping by from UBP! I can relate–in fact, our introductions have a similar theme! Have a great weekend!

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  21. Evonne Says:

    Stopping by from UBP! You’re daughter is so cute! I’m now following you.

    I’d love for you to stop over sometime!

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  22. The Activity Mom Says:

    Loved your intro! I thought to myself “oh man she’s doing it in high heels….” =)
    I’m going to follow.
    Happy party!

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  23. Christina Says:

    I’m a non-blogger here for the UBP, and yes it’s hard to do all the roles (men don’t have to, as much) to perfection! I’m also an artist, poet, journalist, did a local TV program on the arts and am now reviewing for http://www.movieroomreviews.com and http://www.musicroomreviews.com, the ones that say Written by Christina at the top and bottom!

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  24. Elaine Says:

    Hey! Just stopping by from UBP 2010. Love your blog!

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  25. jackie Says:

    Stopping by from UBP to say hello. You have a great blog, and I will definitely be back to read some more.

    Have a wonderful weekend!
    http://www.myperfectlittleworldblog.com/

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  26. Stacy Morley Says:

    I’m thinking following you would be good since I will no longer be alone in my world of losing the mother of the year award. :) I’m across the way at http://www.stacymorley.blogspot.com

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  27. Kristle Helmuth Says:

    Hi! Im stopping by from the UBP, I love your blog, finding that balance is such a struggle, but knowing that someone else feels the same way makes it all the better! I look forward to reading more about you!

    Find me at forgetthedognotthebaby.blogspot.com

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  28. Victoria Gonzales Says:

    Hey there, stopping by from the UBP as well. Your site name caught my eye. I’m not mommy of the year either, but my son thinks I am and that’s all that matters :-) Love your blog and look forward to your posts. I’m at http://casagonzales.blogspot.com if you’d like to stop by. Enjoy UBP!

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  29. kbmama Says:

    Found you on the Blog Party! You’re a keeper!!!

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  30. Saffy Says:

    Awesome!!! Just found you from the blog party. Nothing like a bit of truth huh – I’m in marketing and any gush gusy ‘I’m the perfect mommy’ leaves me feeling a bit cynical – lady, you appear to rock :)

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  31. Deborah Says:

    Happy UBP 2010!

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  32. Janel C Says:

    Stopping by from UBP to say hi! Come visit me to! http://amomstake.blogspot.com/

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  33. Rachel C Says:

    Checking out your blog from the UBP!

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  34. Mrs. Marine Says:

    Hi, nice to meet you! Great “Party”! Hope your having fun at the UBP, I know I am! Here is my Party Post, come on over and make yourself at home!
    http://www.mrs-marine.com/2010/04/2010-ultimate-blog-party.html

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  35. Cheri Says:

    Stopping by from UBP.
    I love your blog title.
    I’ve been a mom for almost 8 years and feel the same way lots of times.

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  36. Melissa Says:

    I mommy fail all the time! There are successes, too, and I revel in those, but the guilt of the fails is overwhelming at times. Actually, my newest post is going to be about a triomphic fail I accomplished yesterday. Yay to that.

    Anyway, I’m here for the party! No one is frowning. I’m glad to find another quality blog!

    So glad I found you! I hope you enjoy the rest of the party!

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  37. Katherine at Postpartum Progress Says:

    Stopping by to say hello for the Ultimate Blog Party!

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  38. Alisha Says:

    Oh girl, I feel like I need a huge MOM FAIL tattoo on my forehead about 98% of the time. I have 3 sons *and a hubby* and the thought differences from male to female are HUGE. So, don’t feel alone on the Not Mother of the Year Award.

    Come see me and our insanity at http://www.musingsofamanicmama.blogspot.com

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  39. Becca Says:

    Hey there!! Can’t believe how strong the UBP party is still going. Nice to run into you. Would love to have you come by our place:
    http://inspiredgiftsblog.blogspot.com

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  40. Tina H. Says:

    Love your honesty – we all need to be so transparent! Hope you can stop by my place (#225) this week: http://tinahollenbeck.blogspot.com/2010/04/2010-ultimate-blog-party.html.

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  41. Mimi Says:

    Well, let me reassure you that you’re going not alone and will have to compete for the “Not Mommy of the Year” award! I’ve been going at it for nearly 19 yrs now! LOL I probably would’ve gotten a girlfriend of the year once…maybe. Your daughter is beautiful! To be honest, I had a HUGE “fail” yesterday as a mom. Sigh… Glad to have found you from the UBP ’10.

    ~Mimi @ Woven by Words
    http://wovenbywords.blogspot.com/2010/04/ultimate-blog-party-5-minutes-for-mom.html

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One day I realized I was never going to be Mommy of the Year. Maybe it was when I used the wrong sized diapers two months into this parenting gig or perhaps it when I saw a stranger in a restaurant watching me wipe my daughter’s face with my sleeve. Maybe it was never remembering to pack everything in a diaper bag. Or it could have been the realization that texting and feeding are probably not good examples of multi-tasking.

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